I love how polite he is. Knowing the sensitive nature of the matter and everything.
Courtesy for me has always been an offering of love and acceptance towards people, a reminder that they are valuable (if they so choose to receive my courtesy). Courtesy extended towards me also makes me feel loved, accepted, and valuable (when I am able to receive it).
In fact, courtesy doesn’t even have to be polite. Many times it is familiar and comfortable but difficult to receive. Above all, courtesy is mindful of my worth and seeks to preserve that.
But I do love how polite he is, it’s very endearing.