I hate to break it to you dear, but I don’t think she wanted to hurt you. No no, rather more nefariously, she didn’t even consider you.

So even if he didn’t fight for her, looks to me like she may still have the upper hand. She had a beautiful experience, she didn’t have a bounty out on your head, and even though it’s over between them bec your man realized what he needed to do to live the life he wanted, she’ll always have her own memories to treasure.